As with many wedding traditions, things are changing, and things are becoming a lot more loose as far as steadfast rules. Bridal shower etiquette has evolved a bit with time, however, there are still some definite rules that should be followed by attendees, as well as by the hostess. We go over bridal shower etiquette tips to keep this event classy, fun, and enjoyable for all.
Bridal shower etiquette tips can vary, which is why we put together some of the most common questions or concerns when it comes to showers.
Generally, the maid of honor, a family member, or a close family friend can host the bridal shower.
Make sure that whoever is invited to the shower is also invited to the wedding. Generally, showers are smaller affairs and include close female family members of the bride and groom, as well as some close friends of the bride.
Depending on the theme, the attire can vary. Generally, it is a semi-formal event, and a cocktail or tea dress and heels are appropriate, however, this can vary. If it is a more casual affair or one that is more active, you’ll want comfortable clothes that you can move in.
The bridal registry should be included on the invitation, that way guests know where to shop for the bride. While gifts are not a requirement, it is of good taste to purchase something that can be used in the house. Of course, if it is a lingerie shower, this would be a separate registry, and you’ll want to make sure to get the bride’s sizes before shopping.
These will need to go out about 6 weeks before the party, and should include all pertinent information including time, date, place, registry, and theme. You want to make the invitation all-inclusive for your guests so they don’t have any questions about what to wear or where to go.
As the bride, make sure to put together a gift for your hostess. She was gracious enough to put together this event for you, and help organize, so make sure to show your thanks with a gift basket full of luxurious bath items or something that she will find equally enjoyable.
Depending on the event, you may want games, and you may not. Some brides don’t find the games enjoyable, but others find them to be fun, and a great way for all your guests to mingle and get to know one another. If you choose to not have any bridal games, try to get all your guests to mingle and chat with one another, especially if you have members of the bridal party who have not met before.
Depending on the party, the location can be a variety of places. For the bride who prefers to keep things simple, a nice shower at the hostess’s house or in the backyard can be a wonderful treat for her. For others, if she loves wineries, consider having the shower at the local winery. Just keep your guest’s budgets in consideration, and try to keep costs lower for this.
Wedding planning can be a stressful time for any bride, but a bridal shower can be a fun break for her and the bridal party to just relax for a couple of hours and enjoy each other’s company. With our bridal shower etiquette tips, you can easily plan a wonderful shower the bride is sure to love